Change

You are capable of changing. You change your underwear, hairstyle, partner, job because you want to.

When other people want you to change, review your capabilities to change. If you don't want to go along with the change then remove yourself from that environment.

If you do accept the change then embrace it.

Resisting change because you don't accept it is purely selfish and you should spend your time elsewhere and not block other people's progress or willingness to change.

Resistance to change is a huge drain on your emotional and physical energies. Go somewhere where you are more comfortable and your energy is projected onto positive change rather than obstruction.